I think sleeping in the same bed as someone is unnatural. Honestly, I don’t even want to share a bedroom with my boyfriend. I don’t think people are meant to sleep in the same room. My main beef with sharing a room and bed is the temperature control. My boyfriend runs a few degrees hotter than everyone else. Due to this, he always has air conditioning on. He also is one of those people that likes the room cold so he can pile on the blankets. To put the icing on the cake, he snores as well. Why would I want to share a room with that? I am a very light sleeper. I refuse to wear ear plugs to bed too. I always would rather have the room heated and sleep on top of the covers. At all times in the year, my boyfriend and I disagree on the temperature. My boyfriend wants AC all year long basically. When it is really cold in the Winter, he will settle to just have no cooling or heating. I never want the air conditioner on and would happily run the heater 24/7. If we shared a room, the two of us would kill one another. What we do currently is have two rooms. At night we got to our separate bedrooms with our own ductless mini split and smart thermostat. I crank the heating at night and my boyfriend ups the AC. Our HVAC needs don’t affect the other persons. Our relationship is a really good one. We just don’t sleep in the same bed. Is it weird or smart?