My husband is forgetful, but when he forgets something important, he blames myself and others for not learning his mind.
I’m supposed to think what needs to be done, and do it.
When it comes to the Heating plus A/C system, I am clueless. I think nothing other than how to change the air filters and when to call for servicing. I heard him talking to his brother about the ignition, and I thought he was discussing the car. I didn’t stick around to listen to the entire conversation. The next day, he said he thought there could be a problem with the igniter in the heating system. He thought it was sputtering a little. I said okay and went back to fixing his, and my daughter’s supper. When he got lake house from toil that evening, he asked if the Heating plus A/C specialist was here? I shook my head and said he didn’t tell myself and others to call them, apparently, when he said something about the igniter, I should have known enough to call the Heating plus A/C corporation, although I didn’t, and he was angry. When he yelled at me, I walked away and went to my family room, and after that I locked the door. Two hours later, he knocked on the door and he was apologetic. I told him he should have told myself and others to call the Heating plus A/C corporation, if that is what he wanted myself and others to do. Him talking about an igniter switch, and my knowing I should call the Heating plus A/C corporation, was not equating. He told myself and others he called the Heating plus A/C corporation, however he wanted to think if I had plans the next day, so he could get a time for the Heating plus A/C specialist to arrive.